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a very, very wise woman told me something one time, and I wrote it down and refer to it almost daily, and I want to pass it on to you...

"Then I learned that life ebbs and flows. Ebbs and flows - it's so comforting to me, I cling to this. Everything in the universe ebbs and flows, like the tides. Sometimes - like right now in your life - we ebb, hard, and it feels like it will never end. But it's like a law of physics - it has to end. It's required to flow. Then things will start flowing, and you will feel great! Who knows how long the ebb will last, and it's no fun while it lasts, but it will end, and the flow will start."

big hugs to you, Angie.

Well no sense in repeating what I already told you but you know I'm here for you if you need me! I can only imagine how difficult it is - well I don't have to completely imagine because I've been there, but everyone's story is different. If I were in AZ I'd give you a big ole hug right now! :)

Haven't "known" you long but my heart just crushed for you...many giant hugs headed your way to get you through this tough time.

And congrats too on the promotion!!!

Angie,
You have been through and are facing some tough hurdles. Keep your head up and your integrity intact. Let me know if you need anything that I can help with!

Oh, and I forgot to say - congratulations on the promotion!

I am so sorry to hear about your divorce. I hope you continue to find strength in running and blogging.

Oh Angie, I'm so sorry.

Remember every ending is a beginning. And it's good to hear that you and Johnny are committed to supporting Ash through this time. In hindsight you'll see that it was good for all.

I've been there and done that too - (divorce) You'll survive and thrive.

Congrats on your promotion. And I agree with Laurie - keep finding strength in your running and blogging.

If I were in AZ I'd give you a big hug too.

T

I am so sorry Angie. I hope that you make it through this difficult time. You have a cyber hug coming at you girl.

Congrats on the promotion.

Sorry to hear about the pending dissolution. Good thing you got a promotion; I'm sure divorce lawyers aren't cheap. Stay strong during the hard months ahead. These breakups are never easy.

I'm sorry, Angie. So many things coming at once. Hold strong and my thoughts are with you.

Congrads on the promotion.

I am so sorry about the divorce. I have been divorced myself and know how hard it is especially with kids involved. My heart aches for you.

Sorry to hear about the divorce, my heart aches for all of you, especially Ash. Congratulations on your promotion, at least a ray of sun during the storm.

Likewise - Congratulations on teh promotion!

And my heart, too, goes out to your family. Divorce is tough, but your pink fuzzy will help you get through this trying time.

I have been a lurker on your site for about a month. I would like to congradulate you on your promotion and show my support for you in this difficult time of divorce. My divorce was just final two months ago and we divorced very amiably with children but unfortunately it is still hard to go through. No matter how right it might be it is a big change for everyone. I would like to extend my support in anyway. I know you don't know me but I have found many new friends and supports in this process. I would like to return that favor if possible. Feel free to email if you would like and take care, Angie.

Congrats on your promotion!

You're going through a tough time, but I know you'll come out the other side a stronger person.

Sorry about the turmoil in your life right now. You, Johnny, and Ash will be in my prayers.

I wish I could have listened more to you yesterday. I wish we didn't have to use the phone and could just look into each other's eyes.
There is no right or wrong. If this is what your family think will work - then this is what you are going to start working on. Either way we go through difficult stuff, just different.
I am thinking of you all.

Angie, here's one more voice to wish you congrats on your promotion and condolences on the divorce. Stay strong, and try to focus on the positive things, especially that little boy of yours. It's likely to be a very confusing time for him.

Hooray on the promotion! That’s always a good thing =) On the other hand I’m sorry to hear about the divorce, that’s unfortunate! I hope you, Johnny and Ash have a smooth transition!

Take care of yourself Angie

Oh my gosh. The very matter-of-fact way you wrote that was kind of shocking. I had to catch my breath even though I don't really know either of you. Divorce is always extremely sad, even when it's the right move.

I'm very sorry to hear this, Angie. Hopefully things will work out the way you want them to eventually.

Good luck with the new job.

Life changes are never easy. But you have a choice to not be a victim (Which I believe you are anything but a victim!)

Congrats on the promotion. Of course everything will "work out in the end". When I went through a very similar situation, that statement didn't always bring much comfort, but it is true.

Have faith in yourself...and know that I have faith in you also!

Oh my. Wow. Well, first of all, congratulations on the promotion and that's wonderful!!
I'm sorry (if that is the right word, heck who nows) but it sounds good that it is amiable and you two are putting Ash's needs first.
Good luck, as you said, with this transitional period.

good luck with your new path, both of them. I never would have known. you always sound so cheerful in your posts. big hugs from california.

Wow. I hope you do well with the new promotion! I am glad you are getting more responsibility at work, and hopefully more money ;)

So sorry to hear about your divorce. You seem like a very attentive mother and wife. I hope you and Ash pull through this and that life is easier on all of you involved because of the seperation.

Hey Angie,

Wow... when you share news, you don't mess around, do you??

Firstly, congrats on the promotion.

Secondly, I'm so sorry to hear about the divorce. My ex- and I divorced 9 years ago... He's a fantastic person... just not for me.

The next year will be a time of tremendous change for all of you. I have this feeling that running and the job will keep you sane.

Hugs to my "twin".

congratulations on your promotion!

i'm very sorry to hear about your divorce. how nice and mature of both of you that you can remain friends. it'll be priceless for Ash. there must be nothing worse for a child than to grow up watching their parents fight all the time and hate each other. (like my nephew). i'm sure you'll ride this one like the strong pink fuzzy that you are. :-) {hugs}

Angie, hugs to you on both fronts.

I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce. I'm glad it won't be a bloodbath, at least. It sounds like you and Johnny are ending on good terms.

Whoa, talk about juxtaposing news. I’m shocked, but I’m sure it’s nothing compared to what y’all are feeling. From someone that’s been there and done that, it gets better after it gets worse. Almost like any race that you run.

Condolences and congrats. In some order.

Hope everything works out.

i can't imagine anyone who can handle life's ups and downs better than you, angie. and the changes that are coming will just make you stronger. i am sorry for the emotional weight that must be on your shoulders right now. you will be in my thoughts and as always, i will be rooting for you.

hey, you dont know me but I read your posts sometimes... I am nattie's sister :) I am so sorry to hear about the transtion you're going through... I am going through the same thing with my soon to be ex husband but the difference is our divorce is very ugly and nasty! He's making my life a total HELL! I also have a 3 years old son (soon to be 4) and it's sad but at the same time i'm happy because I think we were never that happy after about 2 years into the marriage everything turned upside down... so I am looking forward to my life as a single being again!
Best of luck to you! :)

Wow! Now that's an exciting day. Congrats on your promotion, and on making a personal decision that clearly took a lot of courage. I have no doubt you are going to get through this, stronger than ever.

Hang in there. And don't forget the trails are always waiting for you if you need some meditation time.

Cheers, SD

Hey angie: first, congrats on the promotion! I hope it's what you wand and need right now. and second: I've gone thru a divorce, and it's just not easy. But you are strong (as others have said) and you'll make it. Make sure you're not too strong though; you'll need your friends during this transition, so don't be afraid to lean on them.
i'll be thinking of you.
:)

So sorry to hear about your divorce. We'll be thinking of you and let us know if there's anything you ever need.

Angie-
Playing some catch up here. Obviously. I'm so sad to hear about the dissolusion of your marriage. Caught me completely off guard.

You are a strong woman who has come so far and endured so many things, I'm sure you'll find the strength to get through this too. Remaining friends is awesome. And sooooo great for Ash.
My parents divorced when I was young...and there was never the ill will which made our lives as kids soooo much better. We actually considered ourselves lucky because we had such a 'big' family. :)
I know both of you will put Ash's needs above your own...but don't forget to take care of yourself too!

And on a much happier note, Congrats on the promotion.

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