Wrestling with the Diet Monster
If you have ever tried to lose weight you know that it is not easy. I have fought this problem off and on since I was about five years old. I know very few (if any) people who lose weight slowly, steadily and according to plan. I usually do good for a few days then binge, get frustrated, binge, feel guilty, binge, and end up having to start all over again. Dieting is all about burning more calories than you take in. For me this is a delicate balance and when I mix this with an over gluttonous appetite, I have a very tiny fuse before blowing up an entire weeks dieting efforts in a matter of hours.
Okay I binged and I’m frustrated, but I am putting myself in the corner and facing the Diet Monster and his companions Miss Frustration and Dr. Guilt. I’m breaking the cycle that has cost me so much frustration in my life. Rather than straying frustrated, guilty and beating myself with more calories I’m drawing the line and daring the Diet Monster to cross it. The only way I (and you) can beat the Diet Monster is to fight like an alley cat backed into the corner. If you slip up and indulge, don’t drop back and lick your wounds, rather jump in the middle and fight back - run, walk, swim, bike, or just drop down and do some pushups!
My weight this morning 74kg/163.5 lbs., up 1kg/2.2 lbs. from Tuesday, DOWN 1 lb. from yesterday!
Last night I stopped at the pool and swam my laps, 1000 meters plus an extra 100 for the Diet Monster, take that whack!
Comments
To eliminate guilt out of process, I hid the scale. I see you weigh yourself every day. I'd suggest not to. I used to do it too. It drove me into frustartion frenzy! Yes, now I know I am up, and I didn't need a scale to tell me that - my pants did. But right now I am totally ok with it, I understand that I dropped my training dramatically and it's to be expected. As for dieting - I am pretty horrible with that too. But I stopped going nuts about it. I know I am eating healthier and more mindful than 80% of the people, but I have genetics, and as soon as my fitness level goes down, my fat goes up. So I am commited to bring it to normal (and not to illusional wishful) level slowly. I decided on not eating after 7 pm and not consuming white carbs. Since last week I am down 1 kg. I am in no rush. When I get back to regular training runs, I'll be fine.
Jack, don't get demoralized. Be healthy and run well. The rest is just a number.
Posted by: olga | November 10, 2006 6:17 PM
You can do it, Jack! : ) Perhaps don't think of it as a diet, but just a healthier way of eating. And also allow yourself some little treats along the way.
Posted by: Sarah | November 10, 2006 6:35 PM
I am a pretty healthy eater...that said...once I start on sugar, I have trouble giving it up. Binge, binge, binge. I can't stop. So then I have to give it up completely again...and I do pretty well for a while. It's a battle!
Posted by: susie | November 10, 2006 7:18 PM
good luck with your diet. don't forget - the drinks can be a big add to weight gain. not sure what you drink, but i remeber when i lived in germany no one would drink diet!!!!! juices and orange sodas were big too.
Posted by: steph | November 11, 2006 3:23 AM
Fighting back is a good plan! I have trouble with it all too - it's so easy to slip in a few extra calories during the day, so easy to do, so hard to notice. Good luck!
Posted by: backofpack | November 11, 2006 3:35 AM
Jack ... you can lose the weight. If I can do it (I'm addicted to beer, ice cream, any salty snack, and much more) you can.
The trick I used was to look at loosing weight as a process control problem and to create a visual systems to monitor how well I was controlling the process (yes, I am an engineer by training). I set up a simple graphic that assumed I could loose weight and asymptotically approach my target weight.
W(t) = Wi - [Wd* e(-k/t)}]
where:
Wi = Initial Weight, Wd=delta weight required to loose, k = rate constant, t = Time). The rate constant (a number > 1) is really a shaping coefficient to control the initial rate.
Anyway. I plotted out the weight lose graphic and set up the k constant at 2 pounds / week initially ( I was really heavy > 210 lbs .. so loosing 2 pounds of fat per week initially was child’s play … you might want to set yours up to be 1 pound per week if you only have 10 pounds to loose) and then I marched myself down the curve. I posted the chart in my office and weighed in daily (the kooks that tell you not to weigh yourself daily know nothing about process control). There’s nothing like your peers following your anal retentive habits to keep you honest. I lost 35 pounds by monitoring progress against my plan. I adjusted my caloric intact and exercise to keep on the curve. I was travel to France every 6 weeks during this time, so I had plenty of opportunity to fall off the wagon. Worked like a charm.
Good luck
Posted by: Phil | November 11, 2006 7:40 AM
Jack,
Figure out what your addicted to, which foods make you lose control and avoid them like the plague!
As Sarah said, don't use the word diet. It shouldnt exist....it's a healthier lifestyle you're working on. Diet is such a negative word!
As I too am changing my lifestyle I've needed to bring in different ways of handling it, so right now I'm being helped by inspirational tapes. So far it's working--I run to them when my control is at my weakest!
Posted by: Lora | November 11, 2006 12:38 PM
The diet changes our life, our behaviour and our mood. Good luck JAck, I am sure you will win this Monster. A stupid question: doesn't the run work to lose weight?
Posted by: Black Knight | November 11, 2006 7:37 PM